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The Saber Man Star
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| Subject: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 11:02 am | |
| I'm gonna leave, since I feel that it will benefit half the people here too much. And if you don't know what that means...well, go ask an admin.
I'll come back when I feel that I've grown a bit more mature (in your opinions) and I'm ready to come back after a bit of reflection. But for now...goodbye.
P.S. Go ahead and post about how happy you are that I'm gone. I won't give a damn. | |
| | | Satan Shooting Star
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 11:14 am | |
| So you're going to leave just because you think people will be happy if you do?
That's probably the most idiotic thing to do.
No one on here is mature, we are all idiots on here (No offense to everyone) but i mean come on have you ever been on the chat box long enough?
If you're going to leave just because you really care about how others think of you then go ahead, personally i don't give a damn of what people think of me, if i'm satisfied with myself then that's fine by me.
But, Whatever it isn't my decision to make, that's your decision. | |
| | | Spinda Moderator
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 11:19 am | |
| I see... Well then, I'll give you an honest opinion:
You complained a lot, you were pretty honest about what you thought even when it wasn't a good thing, and you don't know when to stop pressing other people's buttons.
I wish you well, but please, if you are to work on maturing, realize these things above and make your decision on how you may better yourself. I am not saying I am happy you are gone, I just wish you would spot the evils hidden in the pureness of what you say, and know when to stop. Think: Am I doing something that could better or worsen the way I appear to the rest of the academy, they way I make myself look, my reputation, the opinions of the other members and what they think of me.
Your actions can have consequences, my dear Morph, but sadly to say, not all can be revoked, but some can.
I await your return in the future and hope that you have come back and thought about what I have said. | |
| | | Spinda Moderator
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 11:22 am | |
| - Slender Man wrote:
- So you're going to leave just because you think people will be happy if you do?
That's probably the most idiotic thing to do.
No one on here is mature, we are all idiots on here (No offense to everyone) but i mean come on have you ever been on the chat box long enough?
If you're going to leave just because you really care about how others think of you then go ahead, personally i don't give a damn of what people think of me, if i'm satisfied with myself then that's fine by me.
But, Whatever it isn't my decision to make, that's your decision. Please slender man. It's not all gumdrops and ice cream. He had around 3 warnings, and when he left, the admins talked about how everytime he did something wrong, he gets another warning, along with a punishment, maybe even leading up to a ban, who knows, and they were going to see how much morph could take. I think that it's best to avoid that crisis and for Morph to leave. | |
| | | Satan Shooting Star
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 11:26 am | |
| - Spinda wrote:
- Please slender man. It's not all gumdrops and ice cream. He had around 3 warnings, and when he left, the admins talked about how everytime he did something wrong, he gets another warning, along with a punishment, maybe even leading up to a ban, who knows, and they were going to see how much morph could take. I think that it's best to avoid that crisis and for Morph to leave.
I never said it was gumdrops and ice cream, I don't get into people's personal information involving warnings or issues involving the staff here, I never get told anything anymore so i wouldn't know, Like i said, it's his decision to leave, not mine. | |
| | | Spinda Moderator
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 11:29 am | |
| When I said "gumdrops and ice cream" I meant, his situation differs greatly from yours. He can't just stay here and take it, that honestly would not be right. I do not want to see that happen, and waiting for him to learn and mature is the better option. I just want to avoid another "Charm" incident... Only those who are long time members here, or have seen the issues, know about what I mean. | |
| | | Kirschire Administrator
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 12:53 pm | |
| I'm going to be frank just like anyone will because I actually give a damn about you guys. Yes, I say mean things to you all at some point in time but it's out of honesty. I don't hate anyone here even if you annoy me 24/7 and like any normal person I'm capable of getting mad.
I don't know if you're going to read this but I hope you will.
First off, I was absolutely pissed at you last night for throwing subtle hints about being mad about something. If you have a problem with something then just say it! I want to help you understand why somethings are done and why somethings are not. I can't solve whatever problem you have if I don't know what the hell is bugging you. Hell, I don't even know if you're mad at Cladis, Cryo, Admins, or just me.
The next thing that pushed me was that you vaguely attacked Asuka and our chatbox mods. "we are run by people who cant stand scrolling" Asuka barely goes on the chatbox and just like me, she rarely uses her chatbox powers. All she did was clear because Spinda's "GOALLLLLLLL" comment was stretching the chatbox.
The last thing that really sent me at your throat was your disrespect towards me. I was explaining the reasons why we clear the chat but you acted like a brat. I dedicated my time to this academy and I try to provide everyone here with everything I can give. I don't expect thanks or anything like that just mutual respect. It really grinds my gears when you disrespect me for no reason at all.
It's your choice if you want to leave but I'd rather you stay and work on thinking things through. Like I said above, if you have a problem, say it. I'm always willing to work things out. Believe me, if I didn't give a damn about anyone here, I'd be throwing punishments around everywhere. Spinda has gotten in trouble here more times I can count and he's still here. Ask anyone, I say harsh things but I'm the most lenient when it comes to dealing with people.
In fact, I let one person off the hook so many times she ruined me once
That Lily. | |
| | | Driven57 Stardust
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 1:05 pm | |
| Why leave? im sure trolling can be fixed with a nice Apology, no need to go over the top with it. Im sure people will forgive you. People will forget about it quickly because thats the way people are. I dont know how exactly people will be happy with you leaving, you need to face some problems not just run away and hope it will end that may sound harsh but its true. You will never mature if you dont face your problems, so dont leave. | |
| | | The Saber Man Star
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 1:09 pm | |
| - Spinda wrote:
- When I said "gumdrops and ice cream" I meant, his situation differs greatly from yours. He can't just stay here and take it, that honestly would not be right. I do not want to see that happen, and waiting for him to learn and mature is the better option. I just want to avoid another "Charm" incident... Only those who are long time members here, or have seen the issues, know about what I mean.
Exactly why I left. I didn't want to take it anymore. I wanted people to forget about this incident, and then I'd come back, like, a bit later. Oh yeah and Ai, I know you didn't find it funny at first. But right there and then, I did. After some careful thinking, I now know how that was offensive to you, so I'm sorry about that. It's just that some people find things funny that others don't, and that's cool. | |
| | | Kirschire Administrator
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 1:16 pm | |
| Seriously. Do you have a problem with something? Just say it.
Instead of waiting for an incident to be forgotten you should face it and shape up. I still haven't forgotten two sour incidents with other members but one person made me proud by staying and improving aka Spinda. | |
| | | Bloody Psycho Star
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 3:04 pm | |
| mmm gumdrops mmm ice cream. hmmm oh right serious convo dude just dont leave we all love you. so Baby dont goooooo ooooo | |
| | | Spinda Moderator
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 3:54 pm | |
| - Rocket Executive Ai wrote:
- staying and improving aka Spinda.
Nyah, technically, I didn't "stay and improve". Remember, I was IP banned, so staying wasn't exactly an option. What I DID do, was leave, and, pretty much, bettered myself, and became less disrespectful, not a 100% all the time, round the clock, 24/7 troll. I realized using the time I was gone how I had upset others, made unnecessary drama, and I used the mistakes that were pointed out to me in order to come back anew and attempt to fix my mistakes. Really, I became Spinda so that I could show how much I'd learned, without anyone knowing who I was, and tested all what I had obtained, and because that test was successful, I slowly began to reveal my identity. I pointed out Morph's childish mistakes and told him leaving was a better option because I want him to think more, and learn from his mistakes, just as I had time to think. Even before the ban, I'd left for a week, in attempt to try to be less annoying, but as you remember, that test was unsuccessful. But look at me now. I show mutual respect, and know when the right time to joke around is, because I had learned from my mistakes and became a better person because of it. If he hasn't truly learned from all his mistakes, and known what's funny and what's not, or when the right time to say this and that, then it's best he has time to himself to think. I'm not saying that from reading these posts, he hasn't learned anything, I'm just saying he needs time to dwell on his actions and figure out how he can talk to everyone without their opinions about him becoming worse. I worry for him, but at this point, whether his choice to stay or leave, I want him to make it, and I won't argue whichever it is. Just remember respect is key, and even when you joke around, do not show disrespect or the other person can get the wrong idea. | |
| | | The Saber Man Star
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| Subject: Re: Bai 4 now. Sun Sep 09, 2012 6:50 pm | |
| You're like psychologists now o-o
Anyways, I'm doing the latter. I'm gonna be like Spinda, dwell and think about the things I did wrong, and come back later (maybe a month, iunno).
Lock this up, please.
BTW hit me up on DN if u wanna talk. | |
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